The decision to pursue a divorce can be very complicated and painful. You might be wondering if you should get a divorce, or if there is another way. These are the top three questions you should ask yourself when approaching this potentially life-changing decision. 


How do I feel?

The first step in exploring the possibility of divorce is to do some soul searching. How do you feel about your spouse? How do you feel about your relationship with your spouse? If you aren’t sure, the right person to consult is a therapist. They will, in an unbiased fashion, guide you through a process of discovering your feelings on the matter.


Is it beyond repair?

If you are sure that you feel dissatisfied with your marriage but uncertain as to whether reconciliation is possible, your next step should be to approach your spouse about marriage counseling. A marriage counselor can give you strategies for communication, conflict resolution, and seeing things from each other’s perspectives.

Is it Time Getting a Divorce

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Is it time?

Sometimes, the decision to divorce is mutual and peaceful. In other cases, one partner decides first. If that partner is you, and you have reached the decision to get divorced, then it is time to start making a plan.


If you suspect your spouse will contest the divorce or are a victim of domestic violence, it is better to talk to a lawyer who specializes in divorce and family law before you notify your spouse. Be sure that you have your own lawyer, and don’t share one with your spouse.


If, however, there is a possibility that the divorce will be amicable, you may be able to proceed without a lawyer by using an online divorce tool such as BlissDivorce, which can guide you through the legal paperwork and agreements unique to your divorce process.

*This article is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide legal advice. If you require legal advice, please contact a licensed attorney in your local area.